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If you’ve ever had sex with men, you know that there are many different types of vanilla sex and more unconventional practices. Some are done almost every time you have sex, like jerking, oral sex, or anal sex. Fisting is also very popular and adds some variety—a form of anal sex that’s often said to be only for “tough guys.” In our opinion, that’s not true, because with the right combination of aids, any man can enjoy relaxed and exciting fisting. We’re talking about Poppers, lube, aids, and toys that can lead to incredibly intense experiences when used together. To find out how this works and what you should keep in mind when fisting, keep reading our guide to fisting.
Fisting is also known as “fist fucking.” It involves anal sex using the hand, arm, or sex toys. During fisting, the active partner (fister) first inserts their fingers one by one into the anus of the passive partner (fistee). This stretches the anus, and the sphincter muscles become accustomed to the passage of a larger diameter. Once the active partner is able to insert all of their fingers—including their knuckles and the palm of their hand—beyond the sphincter, they can form their hand into a fist and use it as a substitute for a penis or sex toys to provide anal stimulation to their partner.
An amazing fisting experience requires some preparation and the right tools. As the active fister, you should wear medical-grade or special fisting gloves and use high-quality lubricant to make penetration easier. It’s important for the active partner (the fister) to trim their fingernails short beforehand. This helps prevent injuries to the rectal mucosa of the passive partner (the fistee). The receiving partner, on the other hand, should perform a deep enema before fisting to cleanse the rectum. You can also find the right products for anal cleansing in our shop.
Fisting has often been associated with the BDSM scene, particularly with the bondage, rubber, and leather scenes. Men with a fetish for large sex toys also enjoy it when their partner fists them, helping them reach orgasm. In addition, there are numerous men in all sub-communities today who love being fingered intensely, which can be a good introduction to fisting. With a little practice, you can become a passionate fister regardless of your preferences, whether in the active or passive role.
Poppers have specific effects; for example, they heighten sexual pleasure, dull the sensation of pain, make you extremely horny, and help your muscles relax, which is especially helpful during fisting. That’s why Fist Poppers have been made even stronger; they have a particularly intense effect after inhalation and belong to the highest strength group, Group 6. You’ll notice this immediately when you take a hit—for example, with Iron Fist Poppers Ultra Strong. Before your fisting session begins, take a few sniffs of the Poppers; even during fisting, inhaling them can help relax your muscles, provide truly profound experiences, and make things even more exciting and fun. Be sure to use the right Poppers accessories, such as the Banger Station or the XTRM Slinger. You can treat yourself to even more relaxation by using the right lubricant. Ideally, it should have a mild numbing effect. This not only makes your anus extremely slippery but also reduces the sensation of pain. Inserting your knuckles and the palm of your hand can feel uncomfortable for a moment. This sensation can be reduced with a lubricant that has a mild numbing effect; for example, using S8 Extreme Hybr Extreme Fist Lube can lead to extremely intense fisting experiences.
You may have already used one or two anal toys and know how arousing it can be to pleasure yourself with a dildo, for example. For fans of fisting, that means: big, bigger, and even bigger fisting toys. There are now numerous fisting toys available that cater to the specific needs of those who like it big. There are giant dildos and extremely wide, realistic anal plugs—for example, the All Black Anal Fist Plug 93 is a popular choice. It’s a true hardcore toy that requires a lot of practice to use. If you prefer more natural shapes, the All Black AB21 Fist Dildo is the ideal solution. Fisting toys intensify the fisting experience not only through their sheer, realistic size but also through their skillful use. Well-lubricated with Fist Lube and inserted into your anus, their size and shape can stimulate your prostate and bring you to an unforgettable climax. A good fist Poppers, such as the Fist Hole Extreme Poppers, further enhances the pleasure of your fisting experience.
Above all, you should always remember that health and safety are the top priority. Fisting is an extreme form of anal sex in which hands—and sometimes entire arms or large fisting toys—penetrate deeply into the recipient’s body. It’s important to avoid injuries and infections. The best way to prevent infections is through consistent hygiene practices, such as thorough hand washing and the use of appropriate gloves, e.g., Unigloves, available in our shop, and well-cleaned toys (you can also find toy cleaners in our shop). When fisting, it’s important not to skimp on fisting lube. If you don’t make your hand or a fisting toy sufficiently slippery, you may cause your passive fisting partner unnecessary pain during insertion. Lubricants for fisting are relatively inexpensive, and you can even mix some yourself to achieve the consistency you prefer. Such DIY lubricants (e.g., J-Lube) usually cost less than traditional, ready-made lubricants. (You can buyJ-Lube and Crisco in our shop.) If you use Poppers during fisting, never use them in combination with drugs or erectile dysfunction medications like Viagra. The interaction between these substances can lead to health problems and result in a hospital visit. If you’re taking blood pressure medication, you shouldn’t use Poppers, as they also lower blood pressure, which can lead to cardiovascular problems. In an emergency, you should always call an emergency medical technician and inform them that you’ve used fisting Poppers. This will allow them to take the appropriate countermeasures.
The most important piece of advice if you want to try fisting is that this particularly intense form of play must be something that everyone involved—whether it’s just the two of you or in a gang bang—truly wants. If one partner feels unsure, they likely won’t be able to relax properly no matter how hard they try and may literally “shut down.” Fisting also requires a high degree of mutual trust. That’s why you should talk openly with your partner about your fisting fantasies. Open communication is the first step toward building trust—and who knows, maybe your partner has the same fantasies as you.
A safeword is a good idea when fisting. If it’s said during the session, your partner will know that something is wrong or that one of the participants is uncomfortable and wants to stop. If you’ve decided to use this method, it must be respected at all costs. Simply continuing even though one of the participants doesn’t want to can, in the worst-case scenario, even be a criminal offense. Especially with fisting, respect for your partner’s wishes is an essential prerequisite for an unforgettable and mutually satisfying experience. We also advise you to take your time and approach the fisting session slowly. Be mindful of your partner’s anatomy—not everyone is built the same way.
When it comes to fisting toys, it’s best to start small with a gradual training approach and then work your way up to the larger toys. Starting right away with a huge anal fisting plug can lead to frustration. If, despite using Poppers and lube, you can’t insert such a toy—or can only do so with pain—you probably won’t feel much like trying again. It’s better to start small and work your way up to the big ones. We hope you have a lot of fun with it. If you have any questions about fisting, feel free to contact us.
